going to oxford circus / my mother control

well. the plan today is to go this big toy shop in oxford circus , however going out with the whole family its abit stressful. Since my mother's controlling behaviour , can of makes it stressful . My mother has 'her' way of dealing with things like she goes out to the shop in her own time , she makes the breakfast at her own time , she dresses my brother and sister in her own time.

The control she wants to keep is to do everything her own way. If that doesn't happen her mind shuts off and won't accpect things can be done in a other way. I guess my mother is scared of losing the control she has. My father has spent most of his marriage trying ti fix my mother , now comes the point where I tell him

'your not her father or her therapist , your her husband'

My father is starting now to accept that , a person can only do so much before themselves start to break.